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Are You Actually Committed to Changing the Relationship—Or Just Hoping They Will?
Let’s be honest. It’s easy to want the relationship to feel better. To feel closer, easier, lighter. But sometimes what we really want is...
Candace Lindsay
Jun 10, 20254 min read


What Does It Mean to Be “Working on It”?
It’s something I hear all the time: “We’re working on it.” “I’m working on myself.” “We’ve been working on our relationship.” But when I...
Candace Lindsay
Apr 30, 20253 min read


Why ‘Just Communicate’ Isn’t Enough—You Need to Connect
Ever had one of those conversations where you think you’re communicating, but somehow, you still end up feeling unheard? You explain...
Candace Lindsay
Apr 22, 20254 min read


Want More Intimacy? Stop Playing Tug-of-War in Your Relationship
Does it ever feel like your relationship is stuck in a never-ending game of tug-of-war? You want more connection, so you pull closer—but...
Candace Lindsay
Apr 13, 20253 min read


Breaking the Cycle of Blame: Taking Responsibility in Your Relationship
Blame can be a powerful, yet destructive force in relationships. When conflict arises, it’s easy to point the finger at your partner—to...
Candace Lindsay
Feb 20, 20254 min read


How to Handle Criticism Without Getting Defensive
Criticism can be tough to hear, especially when it comes from someone you care about. It’s natural to feel the urge to defend yourself,...
Candace Lindsay
Feb 13, 20253 min read


Why Your Partner Says, “You Never Listen to Me” (And How to Change That)
If your partner has ever said, “You never listen to me,” it might sting. Maybe your first reaction is to defend yourself: “That’s not...
Candace Lindsay
Feb 6, 20253 min read


Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing Old Patterns and Changing Them for Stronger Relationships
Most of us have responses and behaviors that feel automatic, especially in relationships. These patterns often stem from past...
Candace Lindsay
Dec 9, 20243 min read


Rethinking Strength: Why Vulnerability Can Build Deeper Connections
For many men, “being strong” has meant keeping emotions locked away, or, on the flip side, trying to control situations and people around...
Candace Lindsay
Nov 18, 20243 min read


Why ‘Winning’ the Argument Can Hurt Your Relationship
In the middle of an argument, it can feel natural to want to prove your point. After all, if your partner just understood your...
Candace Lindsay
Nov 18, 20242 min read


Life is About Relationships: How They Shape Who We Are and How We Can Change Them
Life is all about relationships—whether with ourselves, others, or the world around us. These connections influence how we show up, how...
Candace Lindsay
Oct 18, 20244 min read


Moving from the Adaptive Child to the Wise Adult During Conflict
When faced with conflict—whether in a relationship, at work, or in life—it’s easy to fall back into old patterns of behavior. These...
Candace Lindsay
Oct 14, 20243 min read


Creating a Healthy, Supportive Relationship Container
Let's talk about something crucial for the health of any relationship: creating a healthy, supportive relationship container. This...
Candace Lindsay
Aug 21, 20243 min read


The Importance of Individuality in Relationships
Hi there, Let's talk about something crucial for the health of any relationship: maintaining your individuality. In a committed...
Candace Lindsay
Aug 21, 20243 min read


If You Are in Protective Mode, You Can't Be in Repair Mode
In relationships, conflict is inevitable. How we handle these conflicts can determine the health and longevity of our relationships. One...
Candace Lindsay
Aug 21, 20244 min read


Reaction vs. Response: Mastering Conflict for Healthier Relationships
Hey everyone, it’s Candace Lindsay here. Today, I want to talk about something incredibly important for maintaining healthy...
Candace Lindsay
Jun 18, 20244 min read


How to Set Healthy Boundaries: A Guide to Better Communication and Stronger Relationships
Hey there! Let’s chat about something super important: boundaries. They’re essential for keeping our relationships healthy and...
Candace Lindsay
Jun 18, 20245 min read
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